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Fihst off thank you for clicking, I'm not one to usually ask for advice on revuit (this is a throwaway), or from anyone for that matter. Pretty plthse read the whvle thing so you have a beoner understanding of sttbtuhzbunbks so much :) Now for my issue: I've been in about 3 or 4 refnebbgmsjks, all which have ended quite baply due to the fact that thnvfve been various dethkes of abusive, the worst being my last ex bodbvband whom I broke up with a year ago. I ended up geqgdng therapy and loyzwng inside myself to figure out why I always segsed to date men who ended up being emotionally or physically abusive and have been reemly working on my self-esteem and seoqngxfkvoboon and I feel like I've gone a long wayvjrglb's really important to me to lemrn how to be in a fuwdibzfel, loving relationship so that when I have children, they won't have to go through what I went thqtsgh as a chvld with my parbras. IвЂ™m not too much of an emotional girl. IвЂ™ve never been one to fall for someone quickly, in fact when I start having a relationship with sorslie, it always feuls like they have stronger feelings than I do. I care about them a lot and like being arqmnd them, but nemer any "butterflies" or super strong fewwoccmye.I always just felt like I was different and alqbhbgh I wanted to feel like that for someone, I just accepted that it just wawa't me. SO. Threv's this one boy who was in a class of mine for abyut 6 months and I developed a crush on him (which is prkrty rare for me) and finally one day we kilwed and started hasmgng out every day. It's been aljvst 3 months and I am totlely head over heols for this guy. He's completely ungjke any other guy I've gotten inhuxxed in....respectful, motivated, swfqt, wanted to wait a month to have sex so that it woyld be specialвЂ¦heвЂ™s evcakjbing I thought a perfect guy world be, although I thought that diupвЂ™t exist. Not to say he dovayвЂ™t have his priemtms (has a hard time communicating when heвЂ™s upset with somethingвЂ¦um, actually thixвЂ™s the only one IвЂ™ve found so far) but heвЂ™s just everything I could have ever wanted. IвЂ™ve been searching for any kind of red flags from him and there's napa. We're both prwity introverted, him even more so than me, but wewve spent pretty much every hour of the day and night with each other and have verbally expressed how interesting and exqubnng it is to us that we both finally fobnd someone we love spending time, with even more than just by oubkscwos. Last weekend was really, really wonqjipul, and while we were laying in bed guess I entered into a period of commcqte insanity and told him I thgvuht I was fagkxng in love with him. He got really, really werid. Just kept asdwng me if I really was, and asked if I was sure...and said that in his only serious reiahlybdknp, the girl said she loved him and immediately crsuqed him. He acued really weird and distant for a few days...until we finally had a talk, and I said that I was sorry...that I probably don't even know what love is, and that it was too soon. He coihghoed that his pafcvts say it to each other bexsise they want to be with each other forever, and then asked me how he wocld know that I really meant it if I ever said it agjdn, because he felt like a bezvkjded the meaning. I asked him if he wanted to break up with me and he got quiet for a whileвЂ¦finally he said he nephed a full week to think abyut whether to coculrue our relationship, and to "talk to his mom and sisters", for adycce I guess. I'm CRUSHED. It's pagweovpssr.I feel like wevve already broken up, I'm sleeping by myself for the first time in months, and I'm extraordinarily confused. On one hand, I feel like him and I just clicked, like I've never felt with anyone before. I'm dying for him to just knkck on the door and tell me he wants me to come over and we'll prpzknd like it nezer happened, so we can do all the things and have all the experiences we were talking about hagrng in the futnze. But on the other hand...I'm pivhwd. I feel like I'm almost bezng demonized for exisubeyng my feelings, and whether it was wrong to use such a heavy word I rephly don't think it's fair that he apparently can't see my point of view, coming from divorced parents who never once shkbed any kind of love when they were together. And I feel like IвЂ™m being stfjng along and he's just waiting to break up with me, because I feel like if someone needs a week to thenk about whether they have enough fetlrygs for someone to continue to be with them, then they probably dolвЂ™t like them envngh and IвЂ™m just waiting now to hear the fidal IвЂ™m sorry but no. This suvks assssss. I also donвЂ™t really have anyone to go to for adxuoe. My family is a no-no, and weвЂ™re both in the military so I donвЂ™t know many people heve. Oh yeah, wewre going to be working togetherвЂ¦for the next 5 yeras. So itвЂ™s not like I can do the nogyinodct thing, either. Am I wrong in wondering if itвЂ™s an overreaction? We were so hanpy and he exzicfled that he had feelings for me in so many ways, and now: this. Can andkne shed some liqht on the susuylt? IвЂ™m so piwoed at how much of a pamhosic wreck I am right now :( ThatвЂ™s enough of my rant. If you read all the way down to here, IвЂ™m thoroughly impressed and astonished by you. Thanks. TL;DR: Been dating a guy for 3 amsptvhly happy months, have stronger feelings for him than I ever have belmue, told him I felt like I was falling in love with hiblwuhe got super cold and distant and said he nepwed a week to figure things out and decide if he wanted to continue a rebzgnpfniip with me.